This article is all about of you & yours life. Before reading this article, make one thing clear in your mind that in this world we have nothing in our hand but our life. Firstly you have to understand what is life? why we are failing and unable to get our dreams? It says without knowing anything you cannot plan weather it’s big or small, far or near, personal or professional, relationship or career, love or war and every such thing which exists in our life. So, let’s start discovering our life.
“WHAT” of your life?
Life is a gift of Allah to us and you better live it with its real means. One thing is crystal clear that you can live your life only ones. And logic says when you have something which is one than you need to utilize as much as you can. It’s like you are having an ice cream in you r hand and you know it’s the last ice cream of your life it makes you to taste it better like your never you taste it before. This thought emotionally connect your with this & by knowing it’s going to be no more for you, it become your love. Simply the same logic goes for everything that exists in your life.
Let’s talk about life here, this most teaser things in this living world infect I should say the living itself. You must have emotional connection with your life because this is art of great living. The dilemma is that we never love ourselves and but keenly interested in loving others. Loving others is good no doubt but what if you have no love for your dreams, likeness, interest, talent, skill and everything that you posses. Great saying is “If you don’t love yourself you cannot love others”.
Let me put in simple way “you are for life and life for you”. Human being is the greatest creation of all as Allah says in Quran “Laqad khalaqna alinsana fee ahsani taqweemin” “Verily, We created man in the best stature (Mould)” (Quraan: Sura At-Tiin Ch 95 Ayat 4) but the worrying part is that although Allah created man in the best stature, but he works towards his own destruction, when he follows not the Guidance. Being Ashraful Makhlokaq we are the best living being around. As I said earlier our life is a great gift from Allah and think for a moment if you are giving a gift to any of your love one, you will think many time about his taste, interest & likeness before giving them. Now as you know Allah love us more than 70 mothers which is the greatest love, no one eve can match this love and when he is giving a life as gift to us what would be the importance of it. Allah love and he want us to enjoy and make full use of this beautiful gift.
There us Urdu saying about life:
“Jaan di di hui Usii Ki Thi
Haq to yeh hai K haq adaa na hua”
WHY of your life: You live ones but die many times
We live ones but we die many times in our life. Well, the second thought in your mind would be how? So folks, let me tell the hidden truth about your life. Death is not when the last breath escaped from your lips but it’s when you are not living your life & not making it count. You die daily in your home, School, College, University, community, society, career, business, religion, and relationships & in every aspect of your life.
- When you think you cannot decide about your life & don’t know what to do with it? You Die
- When you think you cannot do certain thing which really mean to you? You Die
- When you think you are lack of resources to achieve your dreams? You Die
- When you think you are unable to get your first love? You Die
- When you are appearing in your first interview with fear and you think weather you will be selected or not? You Die
- When you think you should not take risk in your business? You Die
- When you think you can’t do a good presentation in your class & don’t have courage to stand in front of your classmates. You Die
- When you think of people around you with a lush push Car, well dress up, latest cell phone and may be having the best girl of university, and you suddenly you go in inferiority complex. You Die again
- When you think that there is no one around who is sincere with you in love, friendship or in any relationship You die
- When you think you cannot perform Nemaz in extreme cold weather at midnight. You Die again
And there a lot of situations in your life when you think that you cannot do & in every such situation you die. If you go in all the above statements you will find one thing common “when you THINK”. So Folks, it’s not like that you cannot do things, it’s only the matter of your thinking in such way. You have to just change the pattern of your thought process. See this “Formula of Life”.
Think > Believe > Act > Result
So the rule of planning, doing anything or living your life is simple one “Think what you want to do” “Have belief in your Thought” “Act according to your plan”. At the end “good “results” will motivate you to make it your routine”. If you think you cannot do this, you are right. If you think you can do this, here again you are right because it’s all about your thinking. Your thinking develops your Belief system and it works same like computer which is to process according to input. I invented this formula IRPR recently and now sharing it with you. It applies on everywhere in everything. It has no limitation, there for I name it a “life living tool “IRPR”.
INPUT: Negative thinking
Reaction to INPUT: Negative Belief
Processing: Act according to Belief system
Result: Negative result
If you are carrying negative thought about anything it will pass negative signals to your brain which is your Belief system. In processing, you will act according to your Belief system and if the process is negative the result will be negative. Now the same case goes with thinking positive about anything. If you get positive result from positive input you will get motivated and will be applying it everywhere. If you are getting negative things in your life you have to apply my IRPR in reverse direction like given bellow.
Result > Processing > Reaction to input > Input
By doing this you can get rid of every problem in your life. Let me write my experience, 2 years back I was unable to speak in front of people due to my limiting beliefs but one day I decided to change it & gave positive input to my brain. It really allow me to stand & speak in front 250 participants I came to know it was just my thinking which was “I can’t speak”. The problem was with my negative input brain which was sending negative signals to my Belief system and obviously then I was acting according by not coming on stage, avoiding audience and hiding myself by setting back in my class. In such situation I lose all my confidence in the process although I was having public speaking skills but due to my though I was not attempting it. This is the best description of “WHY” of your life. These are the reasons, why you are not getting your study right, not getting your first job, not having a good relationship, not earning money in your business & not getting your dream.
When of your life:
When of your life is as important as “What and Why”. Whenever you are planning to get something in your life, you must identify till when? Because if you dream is to get rich one day. Here you are mentioning your wish/dream but not setting timeline to achieve it. What you if get rich at the age of 65 when you can’t enjoy. You cannot eat good food, physical health gone and only you can do is setting & see the flying birds. So when has to be center of your action. While planning anything in your life you have to know about the internal and external domains of life. In the same case of becoming richer, if you set time period of 3 months to become a richest man on earth this will be an unrealistic planning. Because you may have great plans but you have to identify in which domain this is falling. Because you cannot command things that are coming in you external domain but you can when it’s in your internal domain. External domains can be marker trends, technology, researches, stock market, Luck mostly, People perception, good and bad time, illness, your age and time, any exam or test, people likeness and dislikes, your bad teacher/Cr/VC and overall situation of country. But you can control the internal elements like your confidence, knowing yourself, personal grooming, belief system, planning a good career, making a good relationship, getting rid of your anger, giving your best shoot, losing your weight by daily exercise, taking risk in business & working hard for your exams. Example can be when you are getting ready for Nemaz you don’t need to think like Azan is said or not, that is external thing your duty as a good Muslim is to get the internal things done on time or before. Whenever you are relaying on external things too much and start ignoring the internal one you can never get the answer of WHEN.
So, this was 3 W of your life. WHAT WHY & WHEN, start applying it in your life at least start thinking about it. The ideal thing would be after reading this article writes these answer:
- What you have read?
- Why you have read this article?
- And when you are going to apply any of this point in your life?
- Life is a gift from Allah and we have to take care of and live it in real sense
- You live one’s but you die many time if you don’t know how to live
- If you cannot love yourself you will never love anybody
- You can do everything in your life but just you have to kick “T” in can’t to make it can
- IRPR is life living tool to be happy and get rid of every problem
- Thinking > Belief system > Action > Result
- Whenever you are facing any problem Try IRPR in reverse direction like “RPRI”
- If you are get into Inferiority complex by seeing good cloth, cell phones, girl friend, money or beauty around you will keep dying dead before death.
- What every you want to do in your life you must know the answer of “WHEN”
- When you unable to get your dream on time then it’s meaningless.
- Don’t rely on external factors too much try be focus on the internal one to get better result in your life.