Pain is the blessing and a gift which required cherishing with smile and engagement. This is not a negative at all, but the pathway to positivity. When it comes don’t run away or don’t curse it or self for it but hugs it, embrace it and let it become part of your soul where u can think around it. See the pain is the pain and living and accepting pain is the real being. Your soul patterns will be drawn by the pain u get in time of being conscious. Soul is and being are not the entities of your appearance. Pain comes to not to give wounds it is just to let us know what we really actually are. It exposes us it realizes the humanity that we really belong to. So never ever try to throw away the pain you receive it a nature coming to in real. Pain comes not to take away anything form you but to but gives you thousands or abundant thoughts. So if you are chosen for pain it means you have been counted somewhere on sky and your name have been chanted by the creator of all. What we need more? He wants to test us and against which ready to give many things which might be out of thoughts and wishes.
So, if you don’t want to be left in the counting then let your pain to become yours as this the 1st step to let it become your cure and the cure for the pain is more pain and keep embracing and living that pain will end up you by it becoming a cure. A cure is not the pleasure you wish for but the thought that pushes you to think about means and matters. These thoughts are not random, actually, they all are wordless, voiceless and express-less, they all are messages and you have been asked by nature to listen to them and understand every word that has never been said and will not be. Being more powerful and spiritual is to get pain as the more you get pain the more you will listen to them. They have to say something to you in the crowd of being and in the crowd of being being-less. If you want to understand all the voice that has never been raised then become dough and dumb by that you will reach to the roots of the your pain and remember we are not the randoms, we all are the soil of soils, the being of beings, the love of love and the wound that is made to carry pain inside without getting felt by any means. Yes, we the humans are not just bones we look outside, but the soul that carries us to somewhere from where we actually belong from. Take pain and reach there as pain is only way to reach to our roots and Destiny. Let the pain to become part of you and you to become part of your pain as this is the only pattern of becoming real human.
Ones I have been asked by foolish person, can’t we take away pain out of our body? I smile & said, can you take away the breath that you are breathing right now? Can you cut your heart into pieces and let it to become part of your body again? Have you saw the moon sparking at morning and sun rising at evening? Have you saw people trust each other after getting demolished? Have you seen the soul ending before the last breath escapes form your lips? No, said by him. Same the case is here. Here nature is calling us to become natural and never go beyond. Fighting with nature is the ending of your existence as our lives surrounded by nature and whatever comes to us by nature or by fate take it become it is yours. Respect your pain it will pay back the same one day. So the removal of pain can’t happen it is part of our soil.
And if you are still thinking to get rid of pain then I have to be blunt on you by saying too often we understand our sorrows, our pain, our suffering in terms of guilt. As if he had to pay. The teaching is sometimes the exact opposite… “God tests those He loves” is not a call not to cultivate our guilt but to think our spiritual strength, our ability to rise to the challenge, to nurture our trust in Him. Suffering and pain then do not reveal the guilt of a victim. Rather, they are awakening a responsible consciousness that calls each of us to stand up, to resist and overcome suffering. As a free and humble soul who resists, not as a passive victim who complains. So, do nothing with the pain, just live it and let it live within you so it can spark your soul to become a candle that guide you in the darkness of darkness.
Handshake of your soul with the pain is the flow of your blood within body, never ever try to get rid of it, instead try get rid your impatience and hopelessness. Be sure if you can afford the curve of your cheeks which call smiles then you are living your pain with Patience and persistence. By that you will get lost in your pain, you will fall in love with your pain and this is point where it will start becoming your cure. Love for the pain is the love for nature and Allah’s creation. The most beautiful love is the love with your pain.
The reason of being the love of pain is the fact I know the saying of Allah in Quran in particular like, “And certainly, We shall test you with something of fear, hunger, loss of wealth, lives and fruits, but give glad tidings to the patient ones.” (Quran 2:155). “Therefore, remember Me (God) and I will remember you, and be grateful to Me (for My countless Favours on you) and never be ungrateful to Me.” (Quran 2:152). “If God helps you, none can overcome you; and if He forsakes you, who is there after Him that can help you? And in God (Alone) let believers put their trust.” (Quran 3:160). These all are the mighty affective to let us believe on pain and start loving it with the core of heart and soul. The question might be how to fall for it? Yes, If you want to fall in love with your pain, then close your eyes.. Stay silent… Remove the barriers and dirt that you carried inside since your birth.. Start breathing slowly and place your hands on your heart.. and say nothing, think nothing, do nothing and try to become nothing. Cut your pleasure into pieces and throw it away like it was never with be like you just came to this world and opening your heart and soul to learn to speak and don’t open your mouth not ever move your tongue, and let yourself connect with the pain and become erasable like thoughts, become shapeless like water and become as dark as the night, become as deep as the sea, become the boat to be travelled with the oars of nature then you will get connected yourself with the pain that you carried and here fall, fall and keep falling in love. The more you fall for the pain the more you will rise. Here you will become spiritual and it will connect you the world and worlds. You will feel the power of pain that can led you to lives of the lives. We all didn’t know that it is the light that lightens due to the pain, has lightened our world. And we are not the stars, sky and else but we the whole universe and we need to shine like the whole world is living within us and here then dreams, goals and wishes dies and you lives the universe.
Why can’t we take pain with smile on and keep gratitude on our right hand and faith on left? The answer I believe of not being aware of the power of being painful. Souls, do Know, meet and live the pain and it will silently draw you by the strange pull of what we really don’t know. Every pull in the pain is the push towards your destiny, but if you will really understand the roots of pain and it will start becoming the unseen pleasure.
Being Sufi, I prefer pain instead of pleasure as the more I get hurt the more i will be blessed as darkness is my candle and the more i pulled down and the more wish and desire i will get to rise again, the more i get pained the more i will realize the importance of having smile despite having nothing in hands and the more i get struggle due to the pain the more expert i will become as smooth sea cannot produce great sailors.
I love pain and l live pain, I live the thunders that lies within every pain and whenever that hits me I embraced it, and naked eye would call it the painful moment and the only pure eye can understand that thunders comes only there where darkness lies and I am so dark inside even I can’t see what is going on inside but now I want to travel inside my myself and the every thunder I take will create a light that will lighten me to see things those are hidden for years. And I wish to carry thousands of thunders inside to get light within. This thunder, this pain will heal my wounds. I want to throw away myself from the face of fake lives that we all live on each day we breath.
If you want to get lighten yourself to see the real universe, you need to take pain first, if you want to heal wounds take more pain and if wish to become woundless and painless take more pain. And if you want to become spiritual take more pain and if you want to go beyond that take more pain. And If you want to be counted in earth and sky, and want to be remembered for years and years keep taking pain as every pain will light a candle within you through which you would the seen and unseen.
“While you are talking to yourself in the love of darkness and when there is no one out & in there and you need to stay calm for the voice calling you to be the best as you were. There you will see the dawn is near to surrender to you and universe will revolve around you for the patience you carry within” DKY